When it comes to what to wear in India, there are countless blogs and forums with this information. I'm going to reiterate the same, but I'll also tell you the reason some locals do not follow the social norms to dress modestly and why as foreigners, we shouldn't follow suit.
Most recently, on a forum I follow, I read someone saying "Wear what you want! I see tons of 20-40-year-old women wearing shorts and spaghetti strap tank tops, etc". While this is partially true (in places like Goa it's acceptable) It's still not something I would personally follow. YES the younger generation is following more western styles against the social norm. but that doesn't make it okay in the eyes of a lot of people in India, especially some of the men.
India is still and probably always will be a very conservative place. They pride themselves on their deep-rooted culture, traditions and where modesty is most valued. You may see the younger 20 to 30-somethings doing this because it's cool to be more modern and Westernized but it doesn't mean people like it. It's also entirely different for a local to choose to do this as they know their way around, speak the same language, and know their community as well. Locals know where to go and where to avoid, they are also dropped off and picked up by parents or personal drivers. As locals, they may get away with more but that still doesn't make them immune to harassment, and we don't want harassment right??? If you want to better understand the mentality of the bad apples of India, please visit Karl Rock on Youtube and watch his video on "sexual harassment in India", Besides that video, he has so many other amazing tips and information to keep you safe and enjoying India to it's fullest! I highly recommend!
As a foreigner in an unfamiliar place with a language you don't understand and already carrying a stereotype as western women, I don't think this is the time or place for "girls gone wild"!! Okay fine, that may be a bit excessive! but I firmly believe there is a time and place for everything and I'm not wearing my jeans and tee to a Met Gala, nor would I wear short, or revealing clothing in a conservative setting such as meeting my husband's parents for the first time or a job interview.
It's all about showing respect and consideration for the occasion, and in return, gaining the respect of others in the process. After all, a little effort in dressing appropriately can go a long way in making a positive impression! You will get stared at everywhere you go in India, but better to be stared at because you're a foreigner and look different and not because you are being perceived as something else. This especially holds true, but not limited to, the solo female traveler!
Dressing conservatively in India is always the best and safest way to go. India is a safe country, and by being mindful of dressing appropriately, you can further ensure a positive experience. As Western women, we are perceived as modern, which can lead to misconceptions about our values and behaviors. Despite the gradual shift towards modern dressing and mindset change in India, it is still widely frowned upon to appear too modern and approachable, especially to random men.
Please also keep in mind while these bustling cities such as Delhi, Mumbai, or Bangalore may seem more Westernized, it's important to remember the millions of individuals migrating from rural villages who might not be accustomed to modern dressing styles. These rural areas might not have much exposure to foreigners, making it essential to dress modestly to avoid causing discomfort or offense.
I have posted some things I typically wear while in India below; fashion doesn't have to suffer just because you're dressing conservatively. You can wear tank tops and crop tops (with high-waisted bottoms) that have skinny straps as long as you keep a shawl (Chunni) or some kind of light cover-up with you to cover your shoulders. And please avoid exposing your bra straps or cleavage, I always bring a strapless bra with me in case of halters etc, but again that scarf will save you in this situation as well!
Take it off for your Instagram pics if you must and put it back on when you're done! You also won't be permitted entry to most temples and mosques without covering your head and shoulders, so a light scarf is always recommended to have on hand anyway.
Please don't wear tights or skinny jeans unless you have a longer tunic to cover your bum, And NO to shorts for women in general. Even my husband will not wear shorts in India; he wears jeans only. I know this could be uncomfortable (guess he's used to it, lol), but again, you won't be permitted to enter most temples and mosques with shorts either. Light pants for men are best! Linen and cotton everything is my go-to, although I tend to steer to cotton more since it's easier to keep wrinkle-free and also less transparent.
One summer day in Canada, I was visiting the park with my son and had a young Canadian Indian girl around 10 years old, look in my direction and say "Who wears shorts to the park anyway??" My shorts were mid thigh so not typically "short" but this should tell you all you need to know about wearing shorts in India. If the 10 year old Canadian raised girl is saying it, just imagine what the men are thinking?
For everyday exploration, items like Sarees, Anarkalis, Lehengas, and Shararas may be a bit too formal and impractical. Instead, save those for special occasions like weddings and opt for more casual wear while sightseeing. Don't fret about dressing like a local; stores in India offer a variety of outfits to suit different occasions and styles. While exploring the local markets, you can easily find western-style cotton tunics, full-length dresses, or kurtas to blend in effortlessly. No need to feel intimidated by traditional Indian attire!
As far as footwear goes, the key is to prioritize your comfort. I won't recommend anything in particular because everyone's feet are very different. In India, It's common to see the local people wearing chappal (sandals), and during my time in India, I've found sandals, sneakers, and flip flops to be equally comfortable choices for me. Remember, what suits someone else may not be the best fit for you, as everyone's preferences vary. With all the walking you'll be doing while exploring the enchanting sights of India, it's essential to have comfortable shoes. I probably wouldn't buy new shoes for this trip without breaking them in first.
When it comes to my outfits for India, I've got to say I am all about the Palazzo pants and culottes! I always go for the high-waisted ones as they are not only super comfortable but also incredibly flattering. Loose fit, wide leg, or palazzo pants are all great options, but it's best to avoid wearing plain tights unless you pair them with a long top or Kurta for coverage. Pairing everything with crop tops is my go-to because they strike that perfect balance of not showing too much skin. Whether it's long skirts, flowy pants (no need to go full-on hippie pants unless you'd like to!), or full length dresses, you'll never catch me without a cover-up, no matter the location or occasion!
In one of my photos below, I'm am wearing skinny jeans, but I've got them paired with a Kurta to make sure all the essentials are appropriately covered. Even my dresses, like halter and sleeveless styles, are made modest with the addition of a light cotton scarf. With a little creativity and attention to cultural norms, you can rock almost any outfit in India!
Some outfits I wore in India, use the slider to see some inspiration!
While in India, It's essential to consider the cultural expectations and norms in order to feel comfortable and respectful. Additionally, incorporating some local styles into your outfits can show appreciation for the culture. Remember, it's all about being modest and respectful. So, whether you're wandering through bustling markets or visiting sacred sites, dress with confidence and cultural sensitivity.
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